Confession: Every Monday Austin and I watch the Bachelor. If you're guilty of doing the same, you know Monday was hometown dates. Yesterday I lined-up a babysitter (like it was hard, thanks Grandma!) and asked Austin on a hometown date: our first real date since Nicholas arrived. The date started by me having to look up directions, taking the wrong exit at a roundabout, forgetting cash, and eventually arriving at Yesterdog.
I've learned my husband is a better driver than me. Austin, if you read this, you can never mention it again. I've also learned you get to throw tip money into a large tin can at Yesterdog, who knew? So fun! Realizing my husband is the better driver, I let him take the wheel from Yesterday to our second stop, Roses on the Lake. Austin proposed to me a few hundred feet away at the boat launch 2 years ago. We enjoyed root chips, main courses, and even a free dessert. The food was great but the company was even better. I've learned my husband is intentional. We had time to debrief post-baby life, talk about Mr. T and all the ways we are missing him, and even joke around about how we knew an awful lot about each other for this being like our second date. (Yes, we seriously acted like we were on the Bachelor). There was a quick third stop at one of our favorite spots overlooking Grand Rapids. We snuck in a few kisses and headed for home. I've learned my husband is continually looking for ways for us to keep falling in love. Post-baby life can be messy, smelly, and loud but he keeps finding small ways to make me feel like the most beautiful and important woman and I'm so grateful. The coolest part? The date wasn't over even when I thought it was. Because at 2:30am, when Austin heard Nick's soft cries first, he got up, changed his diaper, and brought him to me for a feeding. I've learned so many things about Austin throughout the past two years. He is a great leader, friend, and fell into the dad role so naturally. Austin is selfless, gentle, quirky, forgiving, and one of God's greatest gifts to me. He's so much that I don't deserve. We sure aren't perfect but I'm so glad I get to keep dating you. Austin, will you accept this rose?
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Michelle Summit
2/24/2016 05:18:48 pm
Oh Haley, how beautifully you express yourself! You are truly blessed.
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